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6/27/16

Almost There!

Unfortunately I didn’t get a chance to document Morayo’s Potty Training victory, but I’m making sure not to miss out on Demi’s.

Morayo has been potty trained now for what seems like ages! I believe she got it down shortly after turning two. Once she was potty trained she was so proud of herself! On one of our visits to Atlanta, her Aunty Juliet took her to the bathroom and she made it a point to let her know “I don’t wear Pull-ups, I’m a big girl. I’m potty trained” LOL! I was really proud of her because once we made the switch from Pull-ups to underwear, she was strictly in underwear even through the night! We’ve had very few accidents ever since her underwear days and when it has happened, it was because she drank too much right before bed and didn’t use the potty. There have been rules set in place to eliminate that happening and it is working :)

Potty training Demi has been a journey! I was braced for it though. I dealt minimally with potty training my nephew Paul plus I’ve always heard the stories about how it is way harder and takes longer with boys. Based on my experience with Mo and Dems, I can also say it surely is! Way earlier in the year, I basically skipped Pull-Ups and went from diaper to underwear. I was just ready for him to be potty trained, I was going to go hard, and I just knew he was going to get on mommy’s plan. Wrong! It worked for a little bit though. He was very excited about the set of Thomas the train underwear I bought for him. I found out quickly that he just wasn’t ready. His poor teachers at school. I got a bag with his accident clothes to take home almost every day. Lol. I was forced to switch back to Pull-Ups and we started practicing. To encourage him, hubby often took him to the bathroom so he could watch dad. We also made it clear to him that Pull-Ups didn’t mean pee on yourself because it’s basically still diapers (that's why I kinda dislike them). We had to be deliberate with how often we took him to the bathroom, or else he'd depend on the comfort of his Pull-Ups. He was on a tight potty schedule at school and at home. We used stickers as his reward after every successful potty visit.  I sometimes added a special treat at home! After a while, I got brave and started back with underwear on the weekends. Demi eventually caught on!

About two months ago, we went back strictly to underwear at school and at home and used only Pull-Ups during nap time and bedtime. He had very few accidents! Every day I went to pick him from school and saw he was still in the same clothes I dropped him off in, I squealed for joy!  It was a celebration and we made a big deal about it because trust me, it worked! Kids need that! All was great besides ONE thing, a MAJOR thing! He refused to do the number 2 in the potty! No surprise there. Thankfully, I personally always caught it at home because Demi plays loud and hard. Our home stays noisy and once it got unusually quiet I would run looking for him. LOL! Some days I was lucky to catch it before it made an appearance and some days not so much. Since Demi loves big sis so much, his reward for doing the number 2 in the potty at school was getting to go pay Mo a visit in her class and it worked! At home, we gradually went from him going quiet, to yelling my bum-bum hurts to just flat out saying I want to go poopoo!

My baby only wears Pull-Ups at night time now, hence the post title “Almost There!” It's actually a struggle now to get him in Pull-Ups at night because he still wants his underwear but I'm like "Uh Uh bruh". I will probably encourage that soon enough because I want to be TOTALLY done with buying Pull-ups! Demi likes to stand to go pee, so it's pretty funny when he has to poop too! The other night I took him to the bathroom and before bath time and he stood to pee and when he got done he said “mom I sit down now, I want to poo-poo”. He also loves an audience once he’s done to show off his accomplishment. He yells “I did it mom!” and then calls for hubby and Mo to come see his poop. Oh Demi!


This whole process was definitely not easy and it took a lot of patience. I am so grateful to his teachers at school. They are just totally awesome! Our alignment definitely made this a lot easier.

We did it before the BIG THREE!!! YES!!!

This photo was taken at school a couple of weeks ago when he asked to go poop in the potty and actually did it!!

6/15/16

Morayo Is 4!

Morayo turned 4 last week Saturday on June 4th.

Initially we were just going to have a celebration at her school with cake and Juice boxes but we decided to do something beyond the classroom. I went straight into planning mode looking for a location but hubby presented a case on having it at home and why it would be so much fun for the kids. Yes, he really did because I wasn’t buying the idea, but for rational reasons of course. Being the control neat freak that I am, I couldn’t imagine that many kids running through the house. We came up with an idea to keep the party outdoors and I think it worked out just perfectly.

I asked Morayo what she wanted her party theme to be and without stuttering she said “Hello Kitty”. I gave her that scrunched up really? face look but she knew what she wanted and even though I asked several other times after that just to be sure, her answer remained the same. Not that there is anything wrong with Hello Kitty but I was just curious as to where it came from. She had a hello kitty doll that her cousin Izi gave her a while back but that ended up in our unending Good-Will pile. She also has a few hello kitty tutu skirts but that’s about it. 

I wondered about pulling the theme together but after going into Target I realized there was a Hello Kitty section in the party area which I never noticed until that moment. I found invitations, napkins, plates, table cover plus a great outfit! It was just awesome!

We planned the party for Saturday the 4th but due to inclement weather, we moved it to Sunday the 5th and the turnout was still good! The main attraction for the party was a bouncy house but the kids played around the yard a lot too. The weather was kinda hot but I think it turned out pretty good.

I have to mention Demi was good sport through all of this. I thought he would get really sad with all the attention on Morayo but to our surprise our big boy totally understood it was all about Rayo as he loves to call her. On Sunday morning the bouncy house was delivered at 6:30am and Demi was up before Morayo so he stood with me in the living room and watched from the window as it was blown up. When they put up the Hello Kitty banner, he started screaming “That’s for Rayo mom!” and when he heard Morayo get up he began to scream for her to come to the window. “Look Rayo, that’s yours Rayo”. Oh my heart!

Four years has gone by so fast. For those of you that follow my blog (even though I barely post, forgive me!) or know me personally, you are aware of the story behind our first born. Morayo is blossoming into a very beautiful young lady. She is so smart, so outspoken yet shy. She is strong willed and knows exactly what she wants. I love how she is quick to apologize when she knows she has done something naughty. She comes to me and says “mommy I am sorry, will you talk to me?” I love her smile, her laugh, I love how she loves music and how every song that comes on is her favorite song plus how she manages to sing to the tune of every song making you wonder where in the world she learned it not knowing it could be her first time hearing it. I love how she dances. I love that she is so caring and protective especially of her little brother. I love how curious she is. I love that she wants to stay in the kitchen with me and either turn the food while I’m cooking or help take the silverware out of the dishwasher and place it in the drawer. I love how she has learned so good from her mama and cleans up her play area just the way I would. Blows my mind! I love how she’s such a daddy’s girl. I love how she makes me laugh with the silliest things she says. Recently she made me upset and I stared her down and in the process, she asked if I was looking at her because she was beautiful and couldn’t help but break down and laugh. I love our conversations about makeup and perfumes and nail polish. I love when she brushes my hair and ask if she can put it in an Elsa braid (whatever that is). I could go on and on but above all, I love that God found me worthy to be her mama and that by His Grace I get to watch her become the wonderful woman He has called her to be.

With all my life, I love you Morayo! Happy Birthday 4th Birthday Queen!


Photos...
Birthday Girl!

Rayo and Dems

Set-Up

Hubs on the grill. Dem wangs though!!

This cake tasted as good as it looks! Big ups to Dems for poking the top layer.

Us

Twinning with dad

Toppings for Icecream!

Gifts


Favor


Yes there were children at the party, but I don't like to post pictures because not all parents may be cool with it :) 

#Goodtimes